David Gillman

The most exciting part of coaching happens when I ask my clients “What does your heart truly desire?” Sometimes, when we're stuck in the depths surrounded by...

Have you ever felt lost, lonely and isolated around groups of people your own age? Do you consistently find yourself dwelling on your frustrations and anxie...

I don't have anyone I can trust. At some point during your life, whether it was a few years ago or only a few days ago, or perhaps it’s only just happened; s...

I find it hard to make or keep friends Have you ever found that it’s nearly impossible to make or keep friends? How badly does this affect you? Does it make ...

I'm always arguing or fighting with my brother or sister. I’ve heard many stories of people fighting with their siblings in their younger days. I’ve even hea...

I have strong feelings of anger or hatred Life is great! You have your first boyfriend or girlfriend. You’re doing well at school. You’ve got some great frie...

The state of isolation can be an unpleasant experience. Loneliness manifests itself as the emotional response to isolation. In the U.S.A. one recent study ...

...even when I’m with people How does it come to this? How can someone be among many people and still feel alone? Let me share my story with you as an exampl...

In 1998, I discovered a branch of the family distantly related to mine. They were related to my Great-Grandmother who married into the Gillman branch of my f...

I always put things off until the very last minute. It is quite normal for someone to put off doing chores like cleaning your room, doing homework or studyin...

During my first semester of life coach training, I learned a term that struck me like a bolt of lightning. A complex equivalence. Complex equivalence draws ...

(or watch TV or go online) …so I don't have to think about things A computer can seem to be a child’s best friend. For parents, it can be a great baby sitter...

Ballroom Dancing and NLP Works for boys and girls of any age! A Perspective from David Gillman, NLP Master Life Coach Dancing is a game changer! It’s natural...

According to Wikipedia, bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate or aggressively dominate others…but you and I both know that t...

It’s an hour before your speech, you're rustling though notes, hoping that no one is going to heckle you for any minor excuse, or pull you up to correct you ...

In 2013, Forbes magazine reported on a poll which stated that “Work is more often a source of frustration than fulfilment for nearly 90% of the world’s worke...

The freedom to gamble and drink is a privilege many of us experience during our lifetime, but what happens when the fun and the buzz of drinking and gambling...

Have you ever wondered what you’d do without someone in control of your life? If you feel that you’ve handed control of your life to someone else, when did y...

Do you worry that you are being judged all the time? Are you immediately defensive if anyone criticises or challenges you? Do you feel you’re indecisive when...

The ability to connect with members of your family and members of the wider community is one of the most important keys to personal growth and success. It is...